Sunday, 7 October 2012

Something to Share...

He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait. 
She: Do you want me to leave? 
He: NO! Don't even think about it. 
She: Do you love me? 
He: Of course! Over and over! 
She: Have you ever cheated on me? 
He: NO! Why are you even asking? 
She: Will you kiss me? 
He: Every chance I get! 
She: Will you hit me? 
He: Are you crazy! I'm not that kind of person! 
She: Can I trust you? 
He: Yes.  
She: Darling!

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This list that I stumbled upon (source: solve your problem) the other day is so great I just have to share it with you! Here are some great, inexpensive tips for a happier marriage  in order to keep the spark of your relationship alive.  
So, start explore now :-)

Point 1: Be independent.
Just because you marry, it doesn’t mean you must embrace everything about your partner. Sometimes, you forget about how different you two are because you’ve been together for so long. Don’t lose your uniqueness because it’s the same thing that attracted both you and your partner in the first place. Try to take on different interests and encourage your partner to do so too.   

Point 2: Never be angry at the same time.
When you’re angry, you hear nothing else and you don’t care about anything else. If you find that both you and your partner are angry, try to have some space. Calm down. Then talk. Be sensitive to each other’s ups and downs. Talk through the problem and hear each other out. Abandon the whole world rather than each other. And never go to sleep without settling the argument. Most importantly, never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.

Point 3: If you have to disagree, do it lovingly.
There will be a lot of times when you and your spouse won’t agree at all in some aspects. Don’t make your point sound like a criticism to your partner. It doesn’t matter who is wrong or right. Always bear in mind that an argument doesn’t need a winner or a loser. 

Point 4: Never bring up mistakes of the past.
Whenever something goes wrong, do not rub past issues in. Don’t dwell over the past such that you become blind with the wonderful things ahead of your relationship. 

Point 5: At least once every day, try to say one thoughtful or complimentary thing to your partner.
When a couple always spends time with each other, they often forget about courtesy. “Take the trash out. Do the laundry.” Isn’t there something missing in those phrases? Perhaps putting “Please” before each sentence would make it sound so much better. Never take each other for granted.
Showing constantly that you both like each other will help keep your relationship fresh. Even something as simple as complementing on your spouse’s looks or buying little unexpected gifts can help. Look for the things that would make your partner feel appreciated.
Have a Happy Sunday!!!

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